Your mouth is more than a tool for seduction, it’s a gateway to clarity, connection, and agency. Whether you're whispering a desire, naming a boundary, or offering direction mid-stroke, your mouth is how you advocate for your pleasure in real time. For Black women especially, who’ve been taught to stay quiet or prioritize someone else’s satisfaction, using your mouth, literally and figuratively, is an act of sexual liberation.

Maybe what he was picking up on wasn’t where I needed to go to meet my guy but my need for peer-level connection. A need to be surrounded by people who could see me, challenge me, pour into me, and remind me that I didn’t have to do leadership alone.

6 Myths That Block Black Women From Fully Claiming Their Pleasure And why it’s time to rewrite the story on your terms. Happy Summer...